{´◕ ◡ ◕`} Nº202 | It pays to put play in your day ▷ 😛


Hey there,

I'm still lingering on on my ~bi-weekly newsletter rhythm that the summer of 2020 demanded. Does anyone miss the weekly delivery?

Autumn has crept onto the horizon and I'm getting back into bike rides/races, pursuing business opportunities and, even my next transatlantic to & fro travel in the era of Corona to get my kids back in Amsterdam for an extended stay right before the USA's already eerily ominous election unfolds. It's all a bit of a 2020 cliché how so many things seems to be finally clicking yet skipping all at once. We all just want to get back on track.

And we're all just over 2020 in so many ways. But maybe because we forgot to play? Maybe neglecting the fun parts of life has worn us out? Hear me out. ; )

I've been accused more than a handful of times of not growing up. I maintain, that keeping my inner kid alive and well has not only served me, but also those around me, quite well. I just like to play. I like to play with my kids and their friends, I like to play bikes, to make (dad) jokes and just generally goof around. It's fun!

So, a recent NYT article (that I link to below) gave me some fodder to share on how you, too, can get back to the basics of including play in your day.

Check out some highlights:

1. Make friends with your inner critic

Our inner critic is a survival mechanism that buffers ourselves from failure. Failing feels bad, so our inner critic discourages us from doing things that feel silly, uncomfortable or risky. As Kristen Neff, a self-compassion researcher, has said: “Don’t beat yourself up for beating yourself up. We need to learn to make friends with our inner critic.” The exercise is a good first step because it reveals how harsh we can be to ourselves without realizing it, which keeps us from embracing the more playful, creative parts of ourselves.

Borrow your memories

“When you were a child, what were your favorite ways to play?” Ms. Sinclair said. “And when was the last time you had these same types of feelings as an adult? What current activities bring you close to that same unabashed feeling you had as a youngster?”

Do something without sharing it

“Social media makes it easy to buy into this notion that if you don’t post it, did it really happen? Was it important?” Ms. Sinclair said. “Sharing makes it valid.” In other words, social media can inspire people to do things for the purpose of sharing, as the platforms themselves encourage external validation. Since play is supposed to be intrinsically motivated, you might have more fun keeping it to yourself.

Know your play type

People play in different ways — karaoke sounds like a blast to one person and a nightmare to another. A study published in the journal Personality and Individual Differences identified four categories of playful personality traits: other-directed, lighthearted, intellectual and whimsical.

Find micro-moments of play

Being present doesn’t come easy for most of us, but play forces you to focus on the present so you can take a break from ruminating. “We’re all dealing with something right now, and you need to be able to fully feel your fear and sadness and anger and let it out,” he said.

I subscribe to the article's premise that play compels you, at least for a moment, to not be sucked into the the zero sum philosophy of either being happy or sad. I liked the article's notion that one can feel both playful in the moment and still stressed about the state of the world. So, the point isn't to ignore your negative feelings but rather to aspire for joy alongside the negativity.

“Think about how kids are excited all the time, that’s basically what we’re all trying to get back to" – Jeff Harry

In other words, and in my parlance: it is about finding the stoke!

Thank you for reading, I hope this helped you like it did me and I wish you a great week ahead,


Title image of yours truly at CP1 of Further near the Andorran border to France courtesy, @benthomspon.eu.


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This documentary is a homage to the book de Renner (The Rider) by Tim Krabbé.

Lots of nostalgia here for so many cyclists in The Netherlands but around the world. I remember my first ride with Tim here in The Netherlands and years later, being able to speak to him in Dutch. I received this book as a gift from my friend Peter and am ever so grateful.

Exceptional work Vincent, Laurens, Stefan, Bruno and the extended Live Slow, Ride Fast team!

Why the Dutch Wait Less at Traffic Lights

Why the Dutch Wait Less at Traffic Lights

Ever wondered how traffic lights work and for whom? They're different here in Holland.

The Limey Project: a long, weird cycling odyssey into the heart of the USA

The Limey Project: a long, weird cycling odyssey into the heart of the USA

This book launches tomorrow and its author, Adam swung by earlier today with his son to drop off a copy.

It is, in his own words, a "comic, surreal and eye-opening true story capturing a 4,500 mile cycling adventure across the USA by two friends, accompanied by an invisible, talking bear."

I'm excited to read it!


A little over a week ago, I was here. Further.

FURTHER 2020: RACE REPORT — The Service Course

I 'raced' Further for a 2nd time. I shared my experience on insta (part 1, part 2.... yes, I know that doesn't align with the do something without sharing it idea above but exploring the mines made me feel like the Goonies.)

I did intend to finish the race this time but I ultimately rode just 10 of 16 sectors. Kudos to James for winning, Christian for a close 2nd, Laurens for rounding out the podium on his first bikepacking race and to my friend Bas for finishing 5th!

"How you describe an event like Further, I am not quite sure, it leaves the normal ideas of a gravel race behind and is neither a traditional ultra bike packing race. It involved numerous long hike a bikes, 17 sectors to be ridden in sequence with free routing in between and night curfews on certain sectors. What resulted was an adventure race that suited a balanced athlete with navigational as well tactical sense."

p.s. race winner, James Mark Hayden, also penned a recap.

Britain’s Fastest Self-Powered Human: Mike Burrows by Petor Georgallou

Britain’s Fastest Self-Powered Human: Mike Burrows by Petor Georgallou

Petor of Dear Susan recently visited Mike Burrows. I suggest you take a few moments to check out this inspiring story.

How Steel Grandpa won the arduous Tour of Sweden on a roadster with mudguards and pannier bags on the back

How Steel Grandpa won the arduous Tour of Sweden on a roadster with mudguards and pannier bags on the back

In 1951, a 66-year-old Swede crossed the winning line on a rusty old roadster with a flat tyre – and became a cycling legend.


How to Read the ‘7 Habits of Highly Effective People’ So That It Holds Up

How to Read the ‘7 Habits of Highly Effective People’ So That It Holds Up

My colleague has recently dove in headfirst with this classic.

This 'how to' warmed me up a bit. I've been over life hacks for some time now but ensuring that you're upping your game is something we should all  consider, right?

How to Add More Play to Your Grown-Up Life, Even Now

How to Add More Play to Your Grown-Up Life, Even Now

Play can feel silly, unproductive and time consuming. And that’s precisely the point.

The Garmin Hack Was a Warning

The Garmin Hack Was a Warning

Already a few weeks since this happened. I finally did a bit more reading on it. Have you?

(Thanks Sjors for this one!)


KOM Berlin

KOM Berlin

My friend Bregan (with whom I'll be attending The Bohemian Border Bash again with later this month) is organising Berlin's first climbing challenge!

Part everesting, part hill climb.

Fun for racers and just those who want to ride.

If you're able to get to Berlin to take part, it looks like fun!

Here's to putting play in each day this week!

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Jon Woodroof
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